Post Tagged with: "goals"

The #1 Secret To Changing Your Life

Last week I promised to let you in on a secret that will change your life if you really internalize it.  See, we’ve talked about setting goals – standards – and then developing the discipline to do what you need to do to move toward your goals each and every day. I imagine when you heard that you thought, “Well duh, Deb… Of course that’s what I need to do… But why can’t I seem to DO it?” That’s what today’s post is all about. See, we all know WHAT we need to do to improve the results we are […]

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Peak Performance Pillar #2 – Discipline

Hopefully, you’ve invested some time discovering your Standard – your big, A-1 goal. If you haven’t yet, that’s okay – keep at it. The first time I ever really spent time purposefully thinking about what I wanted my life to be after my divorce, it took me WEEKS to actually discover it. It’s a big deal, so take your time. In today’s video, we’re going to move on to the 2nd Pillar in my Success Systems – Discipline. Now, a lot of people have a negative reaction to the word “discipline,” thinking it means punishment, but that’s not what I’m talking about […]

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Peak Performance Pillar #1 – Standards

I’d like to introduce you to my system for breaking through whatever is holding you back from achieving your goals and living life on your own terms. It’s a process I’ve used subconsciously all my life to achieve one “unrealogical” dream after another. The Air Force honed my process into a real system as I realized my dream of flying supersonic jets, and now I want to share it with you. So, let’s stop and think about it: Haven’t we all had enough people telling us we’re going to fail or make a big mistake? Or that we’re being unrealistic? Or […]

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How Are We Doing On Those New Years Resolutions?

Hey there! I wanted to pop on to wish you a  Happy New Year!  Now, you might be thinking, “Uh Deb, you’re a week late!” But here’s the thing… You didn’t need a video or a post from me on January 1st to motivate you to take action on whatever “New Years Resolution” you set for yourself. I’m guessing that you got out of bed last Tuesday loaded with all the motivation and resolve you needed to start down the path of achieving whatever goal you were aiming at. You were excited! And that excitement is usually enough to drown out […]

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I'm Giving Away 1,000 Copies of UNREALOGICAL!

GET A FREE COPY OF UNREALOGICAL! My mission is to share the information I have been coaching people through for the past decade with as many people as I possibly can. What better way to share than to just give away my best? I have 1,000 copies of my latest best-selling book, UnREALogical, in my warehouse to give away on a first come, first served basis. UnREALogical reveals the science behind the system I teach, but then also shares dozens of stories from REAL PEOPLE – just like you and me – who have used my system to create remarkable […]

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It's The Climb…

It’s frustrating when things don’t go smoothly and work out exactly the way we plan for them to or the way we want them too. It’s maddening when we find ourselves banging our heads against a wall trying to unravel the mystery of why things aren’t working out the way they SHOULD… the way we are promised they will if we just do “X,” “Y,” and “Z.” I get it!  BELIEVE me when I say, I GET IT! I also know that I am approaching the middle of my 5th decade on this planet, but please allow me to quote […]

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The Day My Life Fell Apart…

If you’ve been to one of my live presentations then you’ve likely heard the story of how I transitioned from Air Force Instructor Pilot to Green Building Construction Inspector to Developmental Coach, but in the event you are new to me and my work, allow me to introduce myself. I consider myself to have lived a very blessed life. My parents taught me from my earliest memories to go after what I wanted in life, regardless of the obstacles I encountered along the way. That “programming” has served me very well as I set illogical goal after unattainable goal after […]

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Beware the Crabs

I read a fantastic essay by Susan Raines-Bridges called “The Miracle of the Crab Pot” that really speaks to the power of conditioning as it relates to you and those who are closest to you. It uses the metaphor of the way crabs behave when they are caught at sea by crab fishermen. When these fisherman head out to sea, they cast out these big nets and bring in great quantities of crabs onto the fishing boat where they are placed in great big holding pots. The instinct of most of the crabs is to make a pile in the […]

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